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Many Queenslanders are taking up the Not Now, Not Ever challenge to put an end to domestic and family violence. How will you take up the challenge:

Share how you're taking up the Not Now, Not Ever challenge and find out what others are doing.

Community groups and sporting clubs

  • Coaches, club managers, parents and other community leaders should model appropriate behaviour and hold group members accountable when they make sexist remarks, trivialise violence or blame victims.
  • Promote gender equality in your community, religious or sporting club; there is a strong link between gender equality and violence against women.
  • Organise a special event to raise awareness about domestic and family violence and where to get help using our free resources to promote the event.
  • Sporting groups can dedicate matches to raise awareness that domestic and family violence will not be tolerated. Some teams wear a special coloured jersey, socks, caps or ribbon on the day to generate discussion, while volunteers hand out brochures to supporters.
  • November 25 is the International Day for the Elimination of Violence Against Women, also known as White Ribbon Day. On this day, or during November, many sporting clubs host a White Ribbon Round or wear a white ribbon or wristband to start positive discussions about attitudes and behaviours in relation to men’s violence against women.
  • Male teams may choose to take the White Ribbon Oath before their match: I will stand up, speak out and act to prevent violence against women. This is my Oath.

Find out what others are doing in their community and sporting club.

Schools

  • Schools play a key role in breaking the cycle of violence by teaching young people how to build respectful relationships. During Domestic and Family Violence Prevention Month in May, make respectful relationships the common theme for discussion.
  • Order campaign resources such as the poster to display and the Not Now, Not Ever brochure to distribute to students to help them understand the issue and where to get support.
  • Encourage students to produce posters depicting respectful relationships and hold a poster exhibition during Domestic and Family Violence Prevention Month in May.
  • Find out about the Breaking the Silence Schools Program and become recognised as a White Ribbon School.
  • Hold a gold coin donation event, such as a morning tea or fun run, to raise money for a local domestic violence service or shelter and generate discussion that violence against women and children is not acceptable. The funds raised could help pay for school items for children in a local women’s refuge.

Find out what others are doing in their school.

Workplaces

  • Hold a morning or afternoon tea during Domestic and Family Violence Prevention Month in May to raise awareness among staff about the issue. Show videos and distribute brochures. Staff may even be inspired to work as a team to raise awareness among clients and the community.
  • Consider how you can incorporate the Not Now, Not Ever messages into your business during the month of May. For example a café might print messages on recyclable coffee cups for distribution whereas office staff may add the Not Now, Not Ever signature block to their emails.
  • Distribute our brochures and help cards to staff. Order extra copies and leave them in the kitchen or break room so staff can read them and learn about domestic and family violence as well as where to get help.
  • Introduce and promote workplace policies about supporting employees affected by domestic violence.
  • Refer to the Queensland Government’s domestic and family violence workplace support package which is available for local government, business and non-government organisations to tailor to their workplace.
  • Host a fundraising event such as a movie night for a local domestic violence support service. Use our free resources to promote your event.
  • Create a workplace culture where employees feel confident to do something if they see or hear sexist, harassing, discriminatory or other types of behaviours and attitudes that underpin violence against women.
  • Take steps for your workplace to receive White Ribbon Workplace Accreditation.
  • If your business provides a service that could help people leave an abusive situation or start over, consider working with a local support group or refuge to make your service available free of charge.
  • Media organisations can depict domestic and family violence in ways that create a better understanding of the nature of the problem, as well as best represent ways to respond. Visit Our Watch for more information.
  • Find out what others are doing in their workplace.
  • Share how you’re taking up the Not Now, Not Ever challenge by submitting a video or image.

Find out what others are doing in their workplaces.

Individuals

  • Learn about the various forms of domestic and family violence so you can recognise the signs of abuse and know where to get help.
  • Be a source of support to someone experiencing abuse, let them know you care and ask what you can do to help.
  • Fathers have an important role in teaching sons how to respect girls and women. If you’re a dad, think about how you treat – and refer to – women, and model appropriate behaviour.
  • Check out the Australian Government’s Stop it at the start campaign that explains how adults – often without meaning to – say things that excuse disrespectful behaviour in young people.
  • If you’re a parent or carer of a young person, read about The Line campaign and how to talk to young people about healthy, respectful relationships.
  • If you hear or witness violence in your neighbourhood, phone the police on 000. Even if you hear the violence stop, you should still contact the police so they can investigate, make sure people are safe, and possibly prevent it occurring again.
  • If you suspect a child is exposed to violence, contact DVConnect for advice or report it to Child Safety Services.
  • If you know someone who is violent or controlling of their partner, contact your local domestic violence service for advice on the best course of action.
  • Consider whether you use violence in your relationship or are at risk of being violent or abusive. If so, contact DVConnect Mensline, DVConnect Womensline or Lifeline.
  • Challenge sexist comments or jokes that are derogatory or belittling of women; seemingly innocent comments that demean or put down women are part of the continuum of violence and abuse.
  • Host a morning or afternoon tea during Domestic and Family Violence Prevention Month in May to raise awareness of domestic and family violence among your family and friends. You could read out points from our brochures and help cards and order extra copies for attendees to take home.
  • Host a fundraising event for a local domestic violence support service using our free resources to help promote your event.
  • Donate your time, goods or money to help a local domestic violence service.
  • Raise awareness among your family and friends by uploading the Not Now, Not Ever Facebook cover photo during May and by sharing the Domestic and Family Violence Prevention Queensland Facebook page.
  • When you see the media reporting inappropriately about domestic and family violence, write a letter to the editor to voice your concern and include a link to the Our Watch National Media Engagement Project.
  • If you have a child at school, contact the principal about working with the school community to promote healthy, respectful relationships and offer to support the principal, teachers and P&C in delivering domestic and family violence prevention initiatives.

More information

Contacts

  • In an emergency call the police on 000 (triple zero)
  • DVConnect Womensline – phone 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days)
  • DVConnect Mensline – phone 1800 600 636 (9am to 12 midnight, 7 days)
  • 1800 RESPECT – phone 1800 737 732 (24 hours, 7 days)
  • Kids Helpline – phone 1800 551 800 (24 hours, 7 days)
  • Elder Abuse Helpline – Queensland phone 1300 651 192, rest of Australia phone (07) 3867 2525 (9am to 5pm, Monday to Friday)
  • State-wide Sexual Assault Helpline – phone 1800 010 120 (7.30am to 11.30pm, 7 days)
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